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What's A Good Wish? How Can We Know?
The other week I was with a group of my husband’s extended family, most of us there from out of state. We were gathered in our Airbnb and...
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Apr 30, 20245 min read


What We Think We See In A Face Might Not Be The Case
Back in high school, a Homecoming dance, an eavesdropped conversation, and a friend in the throes of childbirth, merged to place me in a...
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Apr 23, 20245 min read


How A Piano and Family Softened Conflict And Finality
I was in the kitchen listening to the piano fill the one-story house, the notes bouncing off the wood floors, the wood wall, and high...
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Apr 16, 20245 min read


When We Pay Witness, The Story Isn't Ours To Resolve
We can see ourselves in everything. We can mirror everything, too. For example, I can see myself in the stately oak tree in my front...
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Apr 9, 20244 min read


In The Middle of The Night, We're Perfectly Okay
When I wake in the middle of the night, I hear the rain battering the windows and my wherewithal. Where am I? I’m awake in the wild of...
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Apr 2, 20245 min read


Spelling Bee Glows Beautiful When Nine-Year-Olds Take A Chance
Cranium. This was his word. “Can you please give me the definition?” he asked. Cranium. The part of the skull that encloses the brain....
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Mar 26, 20245 min read


Forsythia, How You Been, Girl?
I opened the curtains in my bedroom the other morning and there she was, Forsythia, on the side of my driveway making her flowery...
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Mar 19, 20244 min read


The Soundtrack to Life Is Written In Hindsight
I was sitting upstairs at home as my husband watched a movie downstairs when a sinuous tune spilled out of the TV and traveled up the...
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Mar 12, 20244 min read


Our Balloon Contest Was Up In The Air Until It Wasn't
Last August, out of nowhere, my mom’s eightieth birthday dropped from the sky. Maybe it’s better to say it floated down slowly like a...
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Mar 5, 20245 min read


When I Lived Under A Rock, Life Was Human
The most surprising discovery I made when my family moved to Turkey for a year for my husband’s work was the odd fact that the world...
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Feb 27, 20244 min read


When A Car Is Someone's History And A Name Is More Than A Word
The Division of Motor Vehicles, or DMV, is one of the most beloved places in America. If you don’t live here in the U.S., please know I’m...
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Feb 20, 20245 min read


Wonder World and The Real World--A Story of Loss
Yesterday, I woke before the alarm and had some time to kill. Isn’t it sad I’d do that to time? Time is precious, and yesterday I chose...
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Feb 13, 20245 min read


The Soccer Mom Wobble-Stumble Dance Party in Karmi's Kitchen
We get together two to three times a year. Nancy is the driving force behind our gatherings. After enough time has passed since our last...
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Feb 6, 20244 min read


We're So Important To Each Other, We're Imperative
I still remember a conversation I had with someone long ago. I’d casually stated in passing that we’re an animal, and this roused my...
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Jan 30, 20245 min read


How To Forgive Yourself for Getting Lost In The Mountains
There you are, standing under the moon on a snow-covered trail in the middle of winter in shorts. You’re getting hypothermic by the hour....
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Jan 23, 20245 min read


This Is Why I Live My Life Looking Out The Window
Windows have framed my understanding of life. They’re a quiet invitation to imagine an alternative to the moment in front of me, to see...
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Jan 16, 20245 min read


Snow Is A Tenuous Opportunity for Happiness
Monday: Here we go again. The first possibility of snow of the winter and I’m circling like a spinner-top dog chasing its tail. Round,...
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Jan 9, 20244 min read


Eleven-Year-Old Squirrel Hunters Brighten My Winter
The sun had twenty minutes before its tail was gone and darkness would take over the wooded trial I was on. The leaves, which had been...
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Jan 2, 20244 min read


This Holiday, What If I Let Time Be Precious Instead of Scarce?
Steph, wake up and smell the coffee — and the eggnog. Life is right here. It’s Christmas. Why are you fretting over the tiny things? Why...
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Dec 19, 20234 min read


There Is Music In The Space Between The Notes Of Our Lives
It was the end of a long day at the conference I attended last week when an amateur talent show played out on a small stage to about 100...
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Dec 12, 20234 min read