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Stories and More Stories—A Family Reunion On The Beach In the Wind
Image by author On the second evening of my husband’s big extended family reunion, we met at a burger & bar joint, shuffled into a private room that could house the scads of us, and shared stories. These were stories told to the person sitting next to you as the wait staff floated around the boisterous crowd, or to the person across the table who’d just made you burst out laughing and needed to hear your version of the same hilarity—a back and forth of the best kind. An explo
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Nov 18, 20255 min read


Sending A Comic Hello From Family Reunion Vacationland
Image by author Hello, all. I hope this brief check-in finds you well. I'm down in Florida for my husband's big family reunion and having a wonderful time. I'm taking this week off from the blog, but I thought I'd unearth a few of my earliest comics from years ago and share them here. It's been fun to stroll down Comic Memory Lane. Some had me cringe--ugh, not funny. Others had me sorta smile. On average, I'm impressed by how much effort I put forth. See you next week! Image
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Nov 11, 20251 min read


Walking Through My Past, I Ran Into Martians
Image by author This past weekend, I drove the three to eight hours to New Jersey to see my mom and sister. I live in a major metropolitan area. Driving time varies. There was a little of this (shopping), a little of that (dining), a lot of talking, and a solitary big loop tour on foot of my old adolescent haunts. I say “haunts” because it was the day after Halloween. The place was still haunted. I started my loop tour under a big sky, as opposed to the tiny one where I live.
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Nov 4, 20255 min read


Trying Something Other Than Me--Halloween Choices
Image by author If I were to dress up this Halloween, what would I be? Not because I am going to dress up, or typically do on this annual occasion, but the thought experiment has me wondering. What would it be like to knock on doors, a sixty-year-old woman, asking for candy, dressed as my alter ego? It all depends on the costume. I begin with an online search to scout out my options. Obviously, I could construct whatever costume I wanted, but let’s pretend I’m lazy and choose
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Oct 28, 20255 min read


Snoopy, Thanks For The Reminder To Ditch The Catastrophizing
Image by author I grew up with Peanuts . No, not as in almonds or cashews. As in Charlie Brown, Snoopy, Linus, Lucy, and Peppermint Patty. I’ll give a shoutout to Woodstock, too. Back then, you’d access these characters in the comics section of the newspaper and then on holidays, animated on TV. My siblings and I would clump together and watch the Peanuts television specials, and since there were few television shows for kids back then — far from the multi-screen blur that l
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Oct 21, 20254 min read


I'm Not The Best Predictor of The Day Ahead -- Case In Point, the Other Day
Image by author I woke up in recoil. Oh no. This day's going to be the WOAT. I was so certain of it that I wouldn’t allow myself to descend further into fatalistic thinking. I flipped the switch. Only one option: grind through, no catastrophizing, just do it. It’s a muted grit that refuses to notice the challenge or internally comment on it. Going through the motions is another way of saying it, I suppose. I had a busy day ahead, with clear goals I needed and wanted to nail,
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Oct 14, 20255 min read


Of All the Creatures Big and Small, I Squish the Small
Image by author I never realized how much of a killer I am. Sorry to disappoint. It’s true. I don’t think I need to include a trigger...
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Oct 7, 20255 min read


Fall is Upon Us, With Its Leaves, The Blues, And Internal Parties
Image by author Leaves, brown and falling. Temps, cool and sane. Light, shorter now, a harbinger. Blare the trumpets! The season is upon...
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Sep 30, 20255 min read


Story Is Our Baseline, But It Requires Endless Rewrites - Just Ask the Deer
Image by author The other day, I came upon three deer — a mom and two fawns. They didn’t move, didn’t budge, since many deer won’t flinch...
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Sep 23, 20255 min read


Exhale What You Wish You'd Gotten Done, Especially Christmas Prep
Image by author Dear Friends, I submit this image as a celebration of the joyful fact that I gave myself permission to take the week off...
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Sep 16, 20251 min read


Excrutiatingly Bad Neighborhood Mailbox Jokes Enter Fifth Year
Image by author A few weeks ago, I started my fifth year as neighborhood mailbox jokester. This meant I lugged out my thin-tipped magic...
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Sep 9, 20254 min read


The Road to Backpacks for Foster Kids And Beyond
Image by author After I got a tour of the place where I’d be volunteering for the day, which included a detailed explanation of the...
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Sep 2, 20254 min read


When A Sack of Potatoes Sees Me In Ways That I Can't
Image by author I was halfway home from a birthday celebration for my mother when I crested a rise on Interstate 95 and let out a...
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Aug 26, 20254 min read


I Was A Cheater At My First Silent Meditation Retreat
Image by author Please forgive me — I’m a cheat. Or I suspect I might be. If so, I want to make amends, and for that, I think I’ll need...
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Aug 19, 20255 min read


Oh, Time, You Easily Squandered Thing - -I Choose You Over Drivel
Image by author Time is a funny thing, a wispy current. Or maybe it’s not funny at all, and lands like a rude thud with no regard for our...
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Aug 12, 20255 min read


Comparisons Can Show The Bigger Story of Us
Image by author I learned to compare myself to others early on. I was a kid when I compared myself to those who could wake up on a dry...
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Aug 5, 20255 min read


Art Mimics Life, Mimics Art : High Stakes, Do-Or-Die, and Cat Vids
Image by author I just got home from my first writer’s conference, and I’m exhausted. I’m sitting on the couch with a vicious roar of...
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Jul 29, 20254 min read


Would You Notice My Legs If We Met At Starbucks?
Image by author Let me ask you a question. First, imagine you and I are about to meet in person for the first time. We’ve chosen...
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Jul 22, 20255 min read


Attending My First Stand-up Comedy Show Was Just What I Needed
Image by author This past weekend, I attended my first live stand-up comedy show. I’ve always wanted to see one, but I never made the...
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Jul 15, 20254 min read


This Too Shall Pass--And Lead To What's Next
Image by author I was on the stairmaster at the gym, and I had two options for entertainment: look out the glass wall in front of me at...
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Jul 8, 20255 min read